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书名：Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
作者：John Gray
起始部份：第二章第五节下

Men need to remember that when women seem upset and talk about their problems is not the time to offer solutions; Women need to remember that ____1____ advice or criticism, -especially if he has just made a mistake-makes him feel unloved and controlled. To learn from his mistakes, he needs to feel her acceptance more than her advice, when a man feels that a woman is not trying to improve him, he is much more likely to ask for her --------------_____2____ and advice.

If you are a woman, I suggest for the next week practice ____3___ from giving any unsolicited advice or criticism. The men in your life will not only appreciate it, _______________4_______（听写句子）.

If you are a man, I suggest that for the next week you practice listening whenever a woman speaks, with the ___5___ of respectfully understanding what she is going through. Practice biting your tongue whenever you get the urge to offer a solution or change how she is feeling. You will be surprised when you experience how much she appreciates you.

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男人感觉到，他是“问题”的解决者，而不是女人眼中的“问题”时，他才愿意放弃对抗，按对方理想中的样子做出改变。

   假如你是女人，我的建议是：从现在起，尽可能放弃任何未经请求的主张或批评——名曰“放弃”，实为获得。宽容和信任让男人心存感激，他不会忽视这一点。他将以实际行动报答你。他对你越发关心和体贴，更加关注你的一切感受。

　　如果你是男人，我的建议是：从现在起，女人开口讲话，你要把注意力放到她的感受上！你要三缄其口，不要随便插嘴，不要对她的感觉不以为然。你按我说的做，就会惊奇地发现，你的女人多么感激你，她将把你视为体贴、成熟、理想的男人。

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